Monday, November 15, 2010

Married Sex

Here I had everything ready to go and just couldn't get the video processed.

For you married folk:

As always, this is available on YouTube.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Friday, October 29, 2010

Halloween and other scary stuff

I would like to apologize for the lack of update.

I just recently lost my job, and while I thought that would give me plenty of time to update and make my webcasts on time, apparently things didn't work out that way.  Between job hunting, cleaning the house, getting ready for Halloween, and a somewhat impromptu road trip last weekend, I haven't had any spare time to write or record.

I promise I will, and I will hopefully make it worth the wait.  Thanks to my viewers/readers/followers for sticking around.

As always, if you want me to talk about something in particular, feel free to comment or email me directly.


Thursday, October 21, 2010

Sexual Identity

This week's video is about sexual identity.

As always, you can watch on YouTube.

In the spirit of understanding and embracing sexual identity, I would like to recommend any young people struggling with theirs to also visit Dan Savage's It Gets Better Project.

Have a great week of great sex, everyone!

Monday, October 11, 2010

Pardon the interruption

We've had some sickness in the house this past week and it's kept me out of commission long enough that even my brightest hopes could not get this week's intended webcast off the ground in time.  We will return to our regular schedule next week.

In the meantime:  Wear condoms

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Kink 101

Some kinky resources that are decent for beginners:
Different Loving 
SM 101 
Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns 
When Someone You Love is Kinky 
How to be Kinky 

BDSM clubs and organizations - this is NOT a definitive list, so feel free to broaden your research for your own specific area.  Because of the necessity of discretion, lots of these lists are outdated.  It can be something of a search to find active kinky groups, but it is worth the effort.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Basic Facts

Sorry for the delay.  Thank you for being patient while I worked out my technical difficulties.  I will get all the links I used in the video attached to this web post, probably tomorrow.

As always, you can watch this on YouTube.

Teen pregnancy rate trends.
STDs - Wikipedia.
CDC - Herpes facts.
Medscape - Herpes facts.
Huffington Post - How long should sex last?

Monday, September 13, 2010

Technical difficulties

Just a head's up to my few current followers: I'm experiencing some technical difficulties, so this week's webcast will be a little later than Wednesday, though hopefully I'll be able to get it up (heh) by Sunday at the latest.  That is a hope, not a promise, though.  Stick around, I promise we'll get up and running as soon as I can.  Thanks!

Friday, September 10, 2010


I suppose I'll go ahead and state this pretty much up front...

All of what I will say comes from one of three sources:

1) My personal experience.
2) My personal study and research.
3) Personal experience of people who have, at one point or another, been close to me.

However, out of respect for both my privacy and, more importantly, the privacy of the people I care about, I will rarely disclose whence they came.  If I'm repeating something third hand - that is, something quoted from another quotable source like Dan Savage - I will attribute it as such.  I will not use others' material without crediting them (knowingly), but otherwise it will be rare that I will disclose precisely where I obtained the information I'm giving.  This is not hide anything, exactly, but since some of the topics I'll be discussing will be exceptionally personal and sometimes controversial in nature, I don't want to put anyone's identity or privacy at risk.

While none of the people I will talk about, myself included, are in any way embarrassed or ashamed by their experiences, everyone's sex life is intensely personal and I do not wish to bring anyone into other peoples' bedrooms.

And, honestly, keeping the information relatively anonymous will allow for greater opportunity for you to make it your own.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010


The First Step to Better Sex, or Why I'm doing this.

Watch on YouTube:  Sex.Life. 


Wednesday, September 1, 2010


Welcome to Sex.Life.

What is coming is a blog and webcast about sex, love, relationships, and how to make them all work better for you and your life. While it will be - hopefully - educational, I aim to make it fun and just generally interesting. Stay tuned and I'll help you improve your Sex.Life.


Or watch it on YouTube!