Kink 101

Some kinky resources that are decent for beginners:
Different Loving 
SM 101 
Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns 
When Someone You Love is Kinky 
How to be Kinky 

BDSM clubs and organizations - this is NOT a definitive list, so feel free to broaden your research for your own specific area.  Because of the necessity of discretion, lots of these lists are outdated.  It can be something of a search to find active kinky groups, but it is worth the effort.